Monthly Archives: August 2019

Ep. 058 – Who cares about Billy Procida??

August 26, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedAlcoholism, BDSM, brooklyn, Consent, couples, dating, domination, Drugs, Gender, homosexuality, Love, Marriage, mental health, nyc, podcast, polyamory, Rape Culture, Religion, Sex, sex positive, sex positivity, Sexual misconduct, standup, standup comedy, therapy, trans, wellnessPatrick Holbert

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Billy Procida, the “Manwhore” himself, is in the Who Cares podcast studio! He talks to Ross and Patrick about standup, podcasting, sex work, and turning his sex positive slut lifestyle into a career. Billy claims to be extremely problematic but Ross only found minor problems here and there. Overall, this threesome had a lovely in depth conversation about relationships, sex, and societal closed mindedness. The trio also decided they’re doing the lord’s work and that the world needs more whores out in the open, especially in this political climate. So tie yourself up, grab your vibrator and have a listen to Billy Procida!

Check out Billy’s show, “The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest” here!

Ep. 057 – Who cares about Chuck Thornton??

August 19, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedPatrick Holbert

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When Ross first met Patrick, he was a reality TV producer who used a blackberry constantly and hair product never. (Ross’ subsequent fashion and cultural influence on him cannot be understated.) He also had a long term “work husband” by the name of Chuck Thornton with whom Patrick road-dogged across the country to tell the stories of many while eating the garbage of few (when it comes to food, they’re kind of alley cats). Join in as Patrick and Chuck reminisce about their days as collaborators while Ross asks some hard hitting questions and calls them nerds.

Ep. 056 – Who cares about sluts in paradise??

August 12, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, bachelor in paradise, bachelor nation, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Gender, Love, Marriage, monogamy, nonmonogamy, Sex, the bachelor, the ethical slutPatrick Holbert

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Ross and Patrick’s main junk food TV show obsession is The Bachelor/Bachelorette franchise and its trash spawn, Bachelor in Paradise. The entire Bachelor brand is based on the myths we were all sold about love and relationships during our Disney-enhanced childhoods. On this episode, the Who Cares hosts discuss the first episode of Bachelor In Paradise, the drama that ensued, and how little do all these hormone-hyped contestants know, they’re all in open relationships and navigating them terribly. With a dog-eared copy of The Ethical Slut in hand, Ross and Patrick read some wise words from this revolutionary polyamory bible to discuss all the mistakes and missteps happening in Paradise.

Ep. 055 – Who cares about Lindsay Goldwert??

August 5, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, author, BDSM, books, brooklyn, cfnm, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, ethical non-monogamy, kink, Love, Marriage, new york city, non-fiction, nyc, Relationships, SexPatrick Holbert

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Lindsay Goldwert is a journalist, podcaster, comedian, author, and all around fascinating human. She joins Ross and Patrick to discuss the exciting release of her first book, Bow Down: Lessons From Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want. Listen as they dive into the taboo territories of sex and money and how empathy and empowerment are not mutually exclusive. Lindsay shares about the alpha females featured in her book and the incredible power of example Dominatrixes can be to women in all walks of life, not just the bedroom. So strap in and strap on because BDSM is a contact sport where you can learn a lot about yourself. Just be open to it, ok?