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Ep. 048 – Who cares about episode 48??

June 17, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedAlcoholism, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Drugs, Fashion, feminism, Gender, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, nyc, open marriage, podcast, politics, polyamory, Reality TV, recovery, Relationships, sexual health, Sexual misconduct, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, STI's, Substance Abuse, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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This week Patrick and Ross and their third co-host and dog, Peggy, drive southbound on I-95 and talk about all sorts of things. (Well truthfully, Patrick and Ross do most of the talking while Peggy naps in a donut formation in the back seat). Take a listen as The Family Holbertineau mourns the passing of their dear Aunt Sue, discuss father’s day, and share their gratitude for the kind feedback about last week’s bombshell episode from supportive listeners. Get Pegged ya’ll!

Ep. 047 – Who cares about STI’s??

June 10, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, brooklyn, Consent, couples, dating, Drugs, Feeld, fetish, Gender, herpes, homosexuality, hpv, kink, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, open marriage, orgy, podcast, poly, polyamory, Rape, Sexual harrasment, sexual health, Sexual misconduct, sexually transmitted infections, sober, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, STD's, STI's, swingers, Tinder, wellness, yogaPatrick Holbert

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On their most revealing episode yet, Ross & Patrick discuss STI’s, non-monogamy, and sex in general. If you thought it was impossible for them to be even more transparent, take a listen as Ross shouts her truth from the rooftop while Patrick skittishly divulges his. With this podcast, they hope that by opening up more, they can promote more positive conversation around sexual health and relationships. Open your mind (and maybe your legs) to this week’s show!

Ep. 046 – Who cares about Peggy??

June 3, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedcanine, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, dogs, Drag, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, pets, Relationships, wellnessPatrick Holbert

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Well last week they were being voyeurs at the dog park and now their sitting IN the dog park. Ross’ dreams finally came true… she wore Patrick down and got them a dog!!! Welcome Peggy, the adorable mutt to the Holbertineau family. Peggy came into their life as a foster from In Our Hands Rescue and she’s staying in their lives as their doghter. Ross and Patrick talk about how becoming dog owners has already begun to change their lives for the better and the unexpected. Peggy is a precious little girl who makes people smile wherever she goes. What were they supposed to do, not adopt a living breathing stuffed animal?! What are you, insane???

Ep. 045 – Who cares about walkabouts??

May 27, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedPatrick Holbert

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Join Patrick and Ross on a walkabout in their neighborhood of Bushwick, Brooklyn. They grab a coffee, visit the dog park (where they are creepy dog voyeurs), spy on one of their favorite listeners (Hi, Kiersten!), and process the departure of some of their best friends from New York (farewell, Jen & Bay). Oh and Patrick hops a fence to collect $20 he saw with his eagle eyes from across the park. We hope you enjoy this more experimental episode of Who Cares!

Ep. 044 – Who cares about abortions??

May 20, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedabortion, america, brooklyn, Consent, couples, dating, feminism, gay, government, healthcare, homosexuality, human rights, law, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, queer, separation of church and state, Sex, sex positive, states, united states, us governmentPatrick Holbert

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It’s time to talk about these god damn abortion bans. Predominantly conservative white male legislators across this country are making decisions about female bodies, and the hypocritical snow ball effect knows no bounds. Ross does some research on exactly what these laws mean and where they’re taking place, all while mocking these men and their terrible southern accents. The Who Cares duo hope that by using the small platform they have, they can at least spark conversation and let people know how they can take action. Ross is not interested in being “ofPatrick” and she hopes you feel the same. We’re in this together! Here are some links to a variety of articles and organizations that will keep you informed and tell you how you can make a difference. We love you, keep going!

https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/how-to-help-alabama-6-week-abortion-ban-georgia.html
https://www.vox.com/2019/5/16/18628002/abortion-ohio-alabama-georgia-law-bill-details
https://abortionfunds.org/
http://www.stopabortionbans.org/
https://yellowhammerfund.org/

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Ep. 043 – Who cares about Mother’s Day??

May 13, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedbrooklyn, children, couples, dating, family, Gender, holidays, Love, Marriage, mental health, mother's day, new york city, parents, podcast, recovery, Relationships, standup comedyPatrick Holbert

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Happy Mother’s Day, y’all! This week we take some time to thank all the mamas out there. Mothers can be biological, surrogate, adopted, chosen, or any other way you can think of someone becoming a MOTHER. Ross and Patrick start by celebrating the women who birthed them into existence, Betty Ann and Jane. Listen in as these two moms make guest appearances on this week’s episode as Ross and Patrick make their mother’s day phone calls. Come share in the love! Matriarchy Now!

Ep. 042 – Who cares about The Wig Lady??

May 6, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedbrooklyn, cancel culture, Comedy, couples, dating, Drag, Fashion, Gender, life, Love, mental health, michael jackson, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, Reality TV, Relationships, RuPaul, RuPaul's Drag Race, Sex, Sexual harrasment, Sexual misconduct, wardrobe stylistPatrick Holbert

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Ladies and gentlemen put your hands up and your dollars down for Nefertiti!!! She is a fellow wardrobe stylist and a good “Judy” of Ross.’ Take a listen as she explains her love for beauty, makeup, and glamour. And boy bands. And Selena. And RuPaul’s Drag Race. And Motley Crue, and Red Hot Chili Peppers, and Tupac, and Murder She Wrote, and Columbo. She’s a complicated woman, ok? She’s got taste and opinions and she’s not afraid to tell you all about it. Nef has come to the Who Cares recording studio to spill the T, and throw the shade (when warranted). Enjoy!

Ep. 041 – Who cares about reconnection??

April 29, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, holidays, homosexuality, life, Marriage, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, recovery, ReligionPatrick Holbert

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Ross and Patrick are recording in bisolation again! Do you wish they had a guest? Well they don’t, so get over it. Separated for a week, they’re using this episode to hear about each other’s respective adventures. Patrick was on the road in New England and Ross was hard at work in Bushwick. Join the gruesome twosome in the “studio” and find out how their doing post “Argument” Episode Heard ‘Round The World.

Ep. 040 – Who cares about conflict resolution??

April 22, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, arguing, brooklyn, Comedy, couples, couples fighting, couples therapy, dating, death, disagreements, Drag, Drugs, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, relationship goals, Relationships, standup comedy, Substance AbusePatrick Holbert

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This episode starts in the thick of an awkward relationship conversation. A bit of a tiff. Ross and Patrick are cranky and tired and on different emotional pages so they decided to bring the listener with them on this uncomfortable journey of challenging communication. It’s an inside peak into the highs and lows of marriage. Sometimes couples have to hash some shit out while they podcast because there’s no time like the present, right? RIGHT?! Also, they were too busy to record any other time, sooooooo… Wanna hear what 8 years of commitment and knowing everything about each other sounds like? Have a listen!

Ep. 039 – Who cares about Justin & Caitlin??

April 15, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, 90 Day Fiance, Alcoholism, anneurism, apartment living, astoria, ballet, brooklyn, cancer, Comedy, couples, dating, death, Drugs, grief, healing, life, long island, Love, Marriage, medical issues, mental health, New Jersey, new york city, one man show, parents, queens, real life, Reality TV, Relationships, Sexual harrasment, Sexual misconduct, sober, standup comedy, stroke, struggles, therapy, wellness, writing, yogaPatrick Holbert

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We totally and absolutely care about Justin and Caitlin. This hilarious couple met in the comedy rooms of NYC and fell for each other while doing karaoke. They’ve lived in Queens and Brooklyn and over the last couple years have dealt with some real “Life on Life’s Terms” shit, writing material about it and supporting each other all the while. They’re intelligent, incredibly funny, emotionally open, and they’re devoted fans of 90 Day Fiancé. What more could you want?!

Follow Caitlin on Instagram – @caitlinmcares to enjoy the “Real Housewives of Bad Teeth”

Justin’s Instagram is @justinangermeyer