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Ep. 062 – Who cares about Cassandra Cushman??

September 30, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, astrology, astronomy, black magic, brooklyn, cauldrons, Consent, constellations, couples, coven, crystals, dating, death, intuition, leo, libra, Love, Marriage, mental health, mysticism, new york city, pisces, podcast, psychic, recovery, Relationships, Sex, spells, stars, witch, witches, zodiacPatrick Holbert

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Cassandra Cushman is an actor. She’s a writer. A psychic, a witch, a healer. She’s so many things beyond this realm we can’t fit it all in this little paragraph. Take a listen as these three spirits connect on a multitude of levels and maybe life times! Whoa, man… One thing is for sure, Cassandra speaks Ross and Patrick’s language (and Peggy’s language too for that matter). She’s a highly attuned witch who is incredibly well versed in astrology with an MFA in acting. The Who Cares pod loves this lady so much that Ross and Patrick invited her to be a recurring part of the program. Don’t you want some astrological check-ins from the freaky witch herself? We knew it! (We read minds now.)

Ep. 050 – Who cares about open relationships??

July 1, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12 steps, brooklyn, cheating, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, ethical non-monogamy, Gender, lies, Love, Marriage, modern love, polyamory, pride, recovery, romance, secrecy, Sex, SobrietyPatrick Holbert

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It’s episode 50!! Can you believe it?? It only took this duo 50 episodes to decide what they really care about (or at least what they actually want to talk about): Sex, love, alternative relationships, and everything in between! This week Ross and Patrick reveal more about their foray into ethical non-monogamy and their plans for sexual world domination (Kidding! They only wanna start a sex cult. Or maybe a commune). Does all this sound scary and confusing and like too much information? Then maybe sit this one out. Or does it sound captivating and titillating and like you’ve always had questions about things like this? Then dive into the warm poly embrace of this week’s show. XOXO!

Ep. 048 – Who cares about episode 48??

June 17, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedAlcoholism, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Drugs, Fashion, feminism, Gender, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, nyc, open marriage, podcast, politics, polyamory, Reality TV, recovery, Relationships, sexual health, Sexual misconduct, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, STI's, Substance Abuse, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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This week Patrick and Ross and their third co-host and dog, Peggy, drive southbound on I-95 and talk about all sorts of things. (Well truthfully, Patrick and Ross do most of the talking while Peggy naps in a donut formation in the back seat). Take a listen as The Family Holbertineau mourns the passing of their dear Aunt Sue, discuss father’s day, and share their gratitude for the kind feedback about last week’s bombshell episode from supportive listeners. Get Pegged ya’ll!

Ep. 043 – Who cares about Mother’s Day??

May 13, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedbrooklyn, children, couples, dating, family, Gender, holidays, Love, Marriage, mental health, mother's day, new york city, parents, podcast, recovery, Relationships, standup comedyPatrick Holbert

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Happy Mother’s Day, y’all! This week we take some time to thank all the mamas out there. Mothers can be biological, surrogate, adopted, chosen, or any other way you can think of someone becoming a MOTHER. Ross and Patrick start by celebrating the women who birthed them into existence, Betty Ann and Jane. Listen in as these two moms make guest appearances on this week’s episode as Ross and Patrick make their mother’s day phone calls. Come share in the love! Matriarchy Now!

Ep. 041 – Who cares about reconnection??

April 29, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, holidays, homosexuality, life, Marriage, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, recovery, ReligionPatrick Holbert

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Ross and Patrick are recording in bisolation again! Do you wish they had a guest? Well they don’t, so get over it. Separated for a week, they’re using this episode to hear about each other’s respective adventures. Patrick was on the road in New England and Ross was hard at work in Bushwick. Join the gruesome twosome in the “studio” and find out how their doing post “Argument” Episode Heard ‘Round The World.

Ep. 036 – Who cares about Maryam Ajayi?

March 25, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, coal, Comedy, couples, dating, death, democrat, Drag, Drugs, energy, environment, Fashion, Gender, healing, life, lobbyists, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nigeria, podcast, politics, recovery, reiki, Relationships, republican, Sobriety, standup comedy, wellness, yogaPatrick Holbert

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To say that this woman is inspiring is an understatement! Maryam Ajayi is a trailblazer in the wellness world. Specializing in reiki and breath work, she’s working hard to make healing and self care inclusionary and accessible. Never shying away from challenging conversation, she has written thought provoking pieces for medium.com and has begun holding monthly salons to discuss diversity in wellness. Maryam also spills the “T” on her former life as a republican and how she plans to bring about change in the business world through intuitive energy work. Ross and Patrick thought about asking Maryam to create a thrupple but instead just decided to have an incredibly interesting chat. Join them, won’t you?

Ep. 035 – Who cares about Ross Days?

March 18, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Drugs, Fashion, Gender, Halloween, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, Reality TV, recovery, Relationships, Religion, RuPaul, standup comedy, Substance Abuse, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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Soul Cycle Instructor, Comedienne, Actress, International Icon. Ross Days is serving “Rihanna At The Airport” meets the Olsen twins and he’s here to talk about it. That’s right, TWO ROSSES!!! Can you believe it? How will Patrick fair? Have no idea what any of this means? Well tune in and unpack the mythical ADHD creature that is Ross….

Ep. 031 – Who cares about Jen D again??

February 18, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedAlcoholism, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drugs, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, recovery, Relationships, Sex, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, Substance AbusePatrick Holbert

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Jen D. President of our relationship, Wife to Bay, Mother to Niko, and the FIRST RETURNING GUEST OF WHO CARES!!! On this episode, we discuss the trials and tribulations of being postpartum, breastfeeding around your family, and what “playing house” meant for Jen and Ross as kids. Oh, and for the love of god- don’t say “uncomfortability” around Jen because you’ll immediately be dead to her. Ok bye!

Ep. 025 – Who cares about the new year??

January 7, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Travel, Uncategorized12 steps, brooklyn, Marriage, new york city, recovery, Relationships, yogaPatrick Holbert

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This week we care about wrapping up 2018 and putting a fricken bow on it. We literally down dogged into 2019 (I know, vomit) and have some intentions for the new year to share. Don’t worry, we’re still bangin’!

Ep. 024 – Who cares about David “Bubz” Martineau??

December 31, 2018Comedy, Marriage, Travel, Uncategorizedboston, christmas, cocaine, Comedy, dogs, guitar, holidays, Marriage, musician, podcast, recovery, Relationships, Sex, siblings, st. michael's college, standup comedy, Substance Abuse, umass lowellPatrick Holbert

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This week we care about Ross’ lil’ bro Dave. He’s a talented musician, owner of Boston’s most impressive push broom mustache, and a loving dog father of one. Dave has proclaimed himself the number one fan of our podcast and we’re even bigger fans of his.