Monthly Archives: January 2025

Ep. 173 “Gabby’s Dollhouse of Horrors”

Advice, Comedy, Marriage, Parenting, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 46:57 — 64.5MB) | Embed

Subscribe: Email | RSS | More Subscribe Options

In the latest episode of ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast, titled “Gabby’s Dollhouse of Horrors,” Patrick records solo from his home studio in Bushwick, NYC, utilizing the time freed up by a client cancellation to discuss various personal and professional updates. He shares insights on his renewed commitment to treadmill workouts and candidly addresses struggles with sugar addiction, while also reflecting on recent stand-up performances, including a surprise gig at a fundraiser. Patrick recounts a challenging family outing to the Brooklyn Children’s Museum and contemplates upcoming travel plans, including shows in Wisconsin and a family trip to Colorado. As he looks toward the future, he considers potential shifts in his podcasting career and outlines actionable steps for enhancing his show’s reach, such as booking studio time with guests and improving his website.
Notes
️ Podcast Introduction and Setup (00:00 – 07:56)

  • Episode 173 of ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast
  • Patrick recording alone in his home studio in Bushwick, NYC
  • Multitasking due to a client cancellation
  • Discusses potential studio recordings with guests

️ Personal Updates and Exercise (07:56 – 17:20)

  • Resumed treadmill workouts with hill incline setting
  • Discussing sugar addiction and body image concerns
  • Commiserating with friend Pat V. about sweets addiction
  • Mentions documentary work with Joe List

Weekend Comedy Shows (17:21 – 27:50)

  • Performed at Laugh Tour comedy club in Jersey City
  • Surprise gig at ‘Butt Disco’ fundraiser for Burning Man group
  • Detailed experience of performing at a karate dojo in Maplewood, NJ
  • Reflections on audience interactions and performance challenges

‍‍ Family Activities and Challenges (27:51 – 37:00)

  • Visit to Brooklyn Children’s Museum for Gabby’s Dollhouse event
  • Crowded and overwhelming experience at the museum
  • Face painting line and moral dilemma about line-cutting
  • Concerns about sanitation and crowded spaces

️ Future Plans and Financial Reflections (37:01 – 46:49)

  • Upcoming shows in Wisconsin and potential Chicago gigs
  • Family trip to Colorado from March 22nd to 28th
  • Gratitude for family’s financial support for the trip
  • Reflections on podcast future and potential career focus shifts
Action items
Patrick

  • Consider booking studio space for recording podcast episodes with guests (03:01)
  • Get either COVID or flu vaccine (29:07)
  • Update website calendar with upcoming shows (46:32)
  • Sell merchandise at shows (46:42)

Ep. 172 “Concert of Farts”

Advice, Comedy, Marriage, Parenting, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized, , , , , , , ,

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 47:36 — 65.4MB) | Embed

Subscribe: Email | RSS | More Subscribe Options

In Episode 172 of the podcast “We Hired a Sitter for This,” the host presents a solo episode that opens with a humorous anecdote involving a misunderstanding with their daughter over a bathroom incident, leading to reflections on the complexities of a post-truth society. The conversation transitions into the host’s fascination with spiritual and paranormal topics, including telepathy, reincarnation, and aliens, while balancing skepticism and belief in the supernatural. The episode recounts the host’s recent trip to Salem for the premiere of a Tom Dustin documentary, where technical sound issues contrasted with the audience’s warm reception. As the episode unfolds, the host reflects on aspirations to create more documentaries amid financial concerns and a philosophical contemplation of life’s purpose rooted in love. It concludes with a recap of recent comedy gigs, highlights the supportive community within comedy, and addresses uncertainties regarding the podcast’s future and audience engagement, with action items encouraging a deeper exploration of documentary filmmaking and the effectiveness of the podcast itself.

Notes

️ Solo Episode Introduction (00:24 – 08:32)

  • Episode 172 of “We Hired a Sitter for This”
  • Solo episode by the host
  • Morning incident involving a fart sound in the bathroom
  • Misunderstanding with daughter about the source of the sound
  • Reflection on post-truth society

Spiritual and Paranormal Interests (08:32 – 18:22)

  • Discussion about telepathy and the “Telepathy Tapes” podcast
  • Thoughts on past lives and reincarnation
  • Interest in aliens and UFO disclosure
  • Skepticism vs. belief in supernatural phenomena

Comedy Experiences and Documentary Premiere (18:22 – 28:09)

  • Trip to Salem, Massachusetts
  • Premiere of Tom Dustin documentary in Somerville
  • Technical issues with sound during the screening
  • Positive audience response to the film

Spirituality and Career Reflections (28:09 – 41:19)

  • Further discussion on telepathy and alien theories
  • Desire to make more documentary films
  • Financial concerns and seeking work opportunities
  • Reflection on the purpose of life being love

Comedy Gigs and Podcast Reflections (41:19 – 50:27)

  • Recap of recent comedy performances
  • Positive experience at Summer Shack in Cambridge
  • Appreciation for Jack Burke’s kindness to new comedians
  • Uncertainty about the podcast’s future and audience

 

Ep. 171 “Do You Know Who I Am??”

Advice, Comedy, Marriage, Parenting, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 51:18 — 70.5MB) | Embed

Subscribe: Email | RSS | More Subscribe Options

Overview
Notes

Comedy Career and Business (00:00 – 09:59)

  • Patrick and Gastor discuss inspirational business meeting
  • Gastor’s business acumen comes from his father
  • Gastor sold candies in high school for profit
  • Patrick hoarded money as a kid due to scarcity mindset
  • Discussion on balancing creativity and business mindset

Comedy Industry Insights (09:59 – 19:44)

  • Mark Normand’s approach to joke writing as a money-making venture
  • Gastor’s plan to highlight his skills and collaborate more this year
  • Patrick’s experience with new material and upcoming special
  • Discussion on work ethic in comedy and success

Comedy Shows and Venues (19:44 – 29:35)

  • Gianmarco’s work ethic and success discussed
  • Importance of performing frequently and in various venues
  • Alex’s success with vegan restaurant and comedy career
  • Discussion on comedy rooms in restaurants and bars

Comedy Challenges and Etiquette (29:36 – 37:37)

  • Debate on pitching oneself for shows and opportunities
  • Discussion on comedy club dynamics and getting passed at clubs
  • Critique of overused phrases in comedy like ‘clap it up’
  • Importance of preparation and closing bits in sets

️ Podcast Experiences (37:38 – 47:35)

  • Gastor’s experience with unprepared podcast hosts
  • Patrick’s experience with disrespectful introductions
  • Discussion on the challenges of podcasting and interviewing
  • Importance of research and preparation in podcasting

️ Upcoming Shows and Closing Thoughts (47:35 – 56:10)

  • Gastor’s upcoming shows in Saratoga and other locations
  • Patrick’s potential shows in Colorado and Wisconsin
  • Reflections on respect in the comedy community
  • Closing remarks and New Year wishes
Action items

Gastro

  • Plan and execute collaborations to highlight skills (09:59)
  • Pitch himself for ‘Stand up on the Spot’ show (39:04)

Patrick

  • Organize YouTube channel with sections for stand-up and podcasts (29:36)
  • Consider posting recent hosting set clips, editing out unfinished jokes (29:36)
  • Attend Gastor’s show at Comedy Works in Saratoga (46:45)

Ep. 170 “Two Cry Limit”

Advice, Comedy, Marriage, Parenting, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 48:26 — 66.6MB) | Embed

Subscribe: Email | RSS | More Subscribe Options

Overview
In an informal discussion, participants reminisced about memorable experiences from 2005, including social gatherings and the cultural impact of shows like The Apprentice, particularly focusing on Donald Trump’s early public persona. They shared anecdotes from a New Year’s Eve party that blended family friends and comedians, highlighting the unique dynamics of such interactions, particularly with karaoke involved. Topics evolved to parenting, where they discussed appropriate restaurant behavior for children and established a ‘two-cry rule’ for public settings while suggesting ways to compensate disturbed diners. Conversations continued on living arrangements with parents, weighing the benefits of proximity to family against independence, before transitioning to creative ambitions for the New Year, including goals for a YouTube channel and the challenges of content creation. Action items were identified, including producing more clips for the YouTube channel, posting recorded shows, and considering original documentary projects to enhance viewership.
Notes
Reminiscing About 2005 (00:00 – 09:11)

  • Discussed memories from 2005, including parties in Williamsburg and Astoria
  • Mentioned watching the first season of The Apprentice with Donald Trump
  • Reflected on Trump’s public persona and business image at the time
  • Discussed making casting tapes for The Apprentice

New Year’s Eve Party (09:11 – 18:53)

  • One participant hosted a New Year’s Eve party at their parents’ house
  • The party was a mix of family friends and comedians
  • Discussed the dynamics of mixing civilians and comedians at social gatherings
  • Mentioned karaoke and singing attempts at the party
  • Discussed the issue of having more beer after the party than before

Parenting and Restaurant Etiquette (18:53 – 28:13)

  • Discussed a New Year’s Eve dinner at Roberta’s Pizza with kids from daycare
  • Debated appropriate behavior for children in restaurant settings
  • Established a ‘two-cry rule’ for children in public spaces
  • Suggested tipping extra or buying drinks for disturbed tables as compensation

Living Arrangements and Family (28:13 – 38:48)

  • Discussed potential living arrangements with parents
  • One participant’s parents offered their upstairs apartment
  • Debated pros and cons of living closer to family
  • Mentioned the idea of having a ‘crash pad’ at parents’ place for extended visits

Creative Goals and YouTube Channel (38:48 – 48:12)

  • Discussed New Year’s resolutions, focusing on creative projects
  • Expressed desire to grow YouTube channel and reach 500 subscribers
  • Mentioned upcoming Tom Dustin documentary with theatrical release
  • Discussed the challenges of creating content and growing an audience
  • Reflected on the sacrifices required for success in creative fields
Action items
Pat Miscellaneous

  • Create more clips for the YouTube channel to grow the audience (45:43)
  • Post three duo shows that have already been recorded (46:02)
  • Consider making original documentaries for the YouTube channel (46:43)

Ep. 169 “Fun to the Head”

Advice, Comedy, Marriage, Parenting, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized

Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 27:52 — 38.3MB) | Embed

Subscribe: Email | RSS | More Subscribe Options

As we were recording this felt like the last podcast of 2024, not the first of 2025. So please pardon our appearance and attitude and general malaise. This one was recorded mainly to keep the streak alive. Ross didn’t want to do it and I barely did either. But we are here and perhaps there’s a nugget of truth or connection that will bring some pleasure into your day? Thanks for listening!! Here’s to a happy and healthy new year.