Monthly Archives: July 2025

Ep. 198 “We Got Doored” FULL EPISODE



Overview

  • Patrick and Ross are co-parenting in NYC, focusing this episode on first aid and safety after a bicycle accident involving Patrick and Franny.
  • Franny attends a wilderness summer camp run by their friend Kirsten, with the family opting for bicycle transportation due to NYC traffic.
  • The accident occurred after Patrick installed a new front basket on the bicycle, with an Uber passenger opening a car door into their path.
  • Franny sustained three clean cuts requiring wound care, prompting Patrick to confront the Uber driver about safety violations.
  • Neighbor Troy assisted post-accident, while another Uber driver provided ice water, highlighting community support.
  • Patrick felt a mix of anger, shame, and guilt following the incident, and the original Uber driver expressed distress requiring consolation.
  • Franny resumed bicycle transportation five days after the accident, indicating a positive recovery and return to routine.
  • Patrick now rides at a slower pace, feeling skittish about safety in Brooklyn traffic following the incident.
  • Patrick’s recent comedy shows in Dallas received positive feedback, with plans to upload performances on Patreon to engage audiences.
  • Personal reflections include childhood injury experiences, contributing to heightened parental fears, with a family vacation planned soon.

Ep. 197 “Choke On It” LIMITED EPISODE



Overview
  • Podcast nearing milestone of 200 episodes, with plans for celebratory content and highlight reels.
  • Patrick announced upcoming comedy shows in Dallas (July 18-20) and Hanover (August 23, 2025), increasing audience engagement.
  • Ross completed BLS CPR certification, meeting requirements for continuing doula work and enhancing professional qualifications.
  • CPR training involved a diverse group, including a nun and nursing students, emphasizing varied participant backgrounds.
  • A disruptive participant consumed alcohol during the CPR training, leading to removal for inappropriate behavior and inability to participate.
  • Course content included the Heimlich maneuver (renamed abdominal thrusts) and chest compressions, important for lifesaving skills.
  • Ross received certification via email after successful completion of open-book test, highlighting effective training methods.
  • Technical issues arose from recording in 4K format, resulting in limited storage and a truncated episode.

 

Notes
️ Podcast Introduction & Announcements (00:00 – 02:56)

  • Patrick announces upcoming comedy shows: Dallas, Texas (July 18-20) opening for Ian Finance and Hanover, Pennsylvania (August 23, 2025) headlining at Church of Satire
  • Podcast has reached episode 197, approaching 200 episodes milestone with plans for celebration content
  • Patreon mentioned for bonus content including stand-up sets from Oklahoma City shows

Personal Updates (01:23 – 07:47)

  • Ross completed BLS CPR certification through American Heart Association for adult, child, and infant CPR as requirement for doula work
  • Child attending summer camp in Brooklyn, allowing parents to record without hiring sitter
  • Patrick mentions needing to get to a pool, having not been in water for nearly a week

CPR Training Experience – Main Discussion (09:22 – 16:38)

  • Training held at co-working space with diverse group including nun, nursing students, and problematic participant
  • Instructor Alba arrived 10 minutes late with two rescue dogs, despite strict punctuality warnings
  • Derpy participant described as disruptive individual with blonde beard, gym shorts, claiming to be surgical assistant

Problematic Participant Behavior (18:10 – 32:11)

  • Individual openly consumed beer during training, pouring tall boy into Poland Spring bottle
  • Became progressively intoxicated throughout session, using excessive profanity in front of nun
  • Made inappropriate comments about enjoying using CPR in medical situations
  • Eventually removed from class for inability to perform required demonstrations due to intoxication

Training Content & Certification (25:08 – 33:31)

  • Course covered Heimlich maneuver (now called abdominal thrusts due to family name removal) and chest compressions
  • Open-book test format with advance question review to ensure participant success
  • Ross successfully obtained certification via email following completion

Technical & Recording Issues (34:57 – 36:22)

  • Phone storage became full due to recording in 4K format
  • Episode cut short due to time constraints, with possibility of additional Patreon content

 

Action items
Patrick

  • Edit recorded episode segments together due to interrupted recording (36:22)
  • Consider uploading Oklahoma City stand-up sets to Patreon for bonus content (00:00)
  • Plan celebration content for upcoming 200th episode milestone (02:56)

Unassigned

  • Explore having producer create highlight reel for 200 episodes (02:56)

Ep. 196 “Liquid Billionaires”



Overview
  • Episode 196 of ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ recorded on July 7, 2025, with hosts reflecting on a successful comedy performance despite a small audience.
  • YouTube channel viewership is limited to 17 views, risking a drop to 14 due to early episode cursing.
  • Discussed themes in the ‘Ocean Gate’ documentary, highlighting safety negligence in underwater exploration linked to wealthy individuals and current political commentary.
  • Patrick reflecting on his 22-year NYC journey as a sober companion, emphasizing the personal significance of the Kosciusko Bridge.
  • Current coaching role aids financial stability while aspiring to transition into comedy and filmmaking, with detailed plans for Patreon discussions.
  • Bespoke Patreon strategy includes direct outreach to 6 current subscribers and varying content tiers, such as risk story performances and yoga class for remote subscribers.
  • Ross actively participates in family responsibilities, involving quarterly toy and clothing donations, facing logistical challenges with drop-off scheduling.
  • Nostalgic discussions about past experiences, including reflections on childhood visits to Long Island, enhance personal storytelling throughout the episode.
  • Exploration of British reality TV shows sparks conversation about cultural preferences in entertainment.
  • Highlighted the need for improved audio equipment knowledge, referencing techniques from LCD Sound System performances.

 

Notes
️ Episode Details & Technical Setup (01:35 – 08:52)

  • Episode 196 of ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast recorded on Monday, July 7, 2025 at 9:30 PM.
  • Host Ross performed comedy at Grizzly Pair for six people and felt successful as a comedian.
  • Recording split format with intro together, then separate segments due to scheduling conflicts.
  • YouTube channel has limited viewership – 17 views that could drop to 14 with early cursing.
  • Audio equipment discussion regarding square microphone technique similar to LCD Sound System performances.

Personal Life & Entertainment (03:01 – 04:27)

  • Hosts watched ‘Naked Brits’ dating show on HBO featuring uncensored British participants.
  • Discussion of British reality TV preferences, including country home shows and wealth-focused programming.
  • Patrick working multiple doula jobs while maintaining podcast schedule.
  • Ross mentioned spitting habit of daughter Franny after teeth brushing.

Netflix Ocean Gate Documentary Analysis (05:48 – 07:17)

  • Watched Ocean Gate documentary about ‘liquefied billionaires’ and narcissistic wealthy individuals.
  • Documentary explores generationally wealthy submarine company owner who caused deaths through poor salesmanship and safety negligence.
  • Political commentary connecting documentary themes to current leadership and ‘death cult’ politics.

Patrick’s Early Morning Work Drive (10:30 – 19:46)

  • Recording at 5:40 AM on Tuesday, July 8 while driving to Manhattan for client work.
  • Working as sober companion/executive functioning coach for 9-10 years, helping clients with emotional disorders and neurodivergence.
  • Crossing Kosciusko Bridge triggers 22-year reflection on New York City career journey since May 2003 college graduation.
  • Bridge replacement project completed 6-7 years ago, previously was deteriorating brutalist steel structure.
  • Nostalgic memories of driving to Long Island to visit ex-girlfriend’s family on weekends.

Career Transition Goals (21:36 – 21:36)

  • Current coaching work serves as survival structure to support real passions in comedy and filmmaking.
  • Goal to transition out of current work, planning detailed discussion for Patreon subscribers about work specifics.
  • Past production assistant experience included overnight tape digitization when physical tapes were required for editing.

Patreon & Content Strategy (08:52 – 24:54)

  • Bespoke Patreon approach with individual outreach to 6 current subscribers.
  • Risk story performance content planned for $5 tier subscribers.
  • Yoga class content offering for subscribers who don’t live in New York City.
  • Two-dollar subscription level provides access to full episodes beyond the limited free version.

Family & Household Management (23:22 – 23:22)

  • Ross manages quarterly toy and clothing donations, currently bags waiting in car trunk for two weeks.
  • Blues Clues watch toy making repeated sounds from donation bags, creating mental distraction during drive.
  • Bushwick free store available on Tuesdays for donations, but car scheduling conflict prevents drop-off.

 

Action items
Patrick

  • Record individual podcast segment during 5:30 AM drive to Manhattan (08:52)
  • Record segment after teaching yoga class (08:52)
  • Create detailed Patreon content explaining work transition specifics (21:36)
  • Upload Risk story performance to Patreon for $5 tier subscribers (08:52)

Ross

  • Record individual podcast segment when alone (08:52)
  • Deliver toy donation bags to Bushwick free store or alternative location (23:22)
  • Consider recording yoga class content for Patreon subscribers (08:52)

Ep. 195 “Long Balls and a Broken Foot”



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Overview
  • Episode 195 of ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ features Patrick recording solo due to Ross’s injury; highlights adaptability in content creation.
  • Zoron Momdani’s win in the Democratic mayoral primary nomination sparked satirical takes from Patrick, showcasing engagement with current events.
  • Patrick battled strep throat mid-week, demonstrating resilience by performing on the Risk Storytelling podcast, receiving positive feedback.
  • Ross suffered a broken foot during a pool incident, impacting family mobility and leading to an early return from a trip.
  • The family is navigating a childcare gap as they transition from school to summer camp, requiring full-time arrangements during the interim.
  • Patrick reminisced about childhood summers at the Ulster County pool, creating connections between past and present experiences for his daughter.
  • Family visit to Stap Dairy Farm allowed Franny to interact with various farm animals, enriching their time together with hands-on learning.
  • Franny experienced a unique moment feeding domesticated deer, highlighting the importance of wildlife encounters in family outings.

 

Notes
️ Podcast Production Updates (00:00 – 01:33)

  • Episode 195 of ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast being recorded solo by Patrick due to Ross’s injury and scheduling conflicts.

️ Election Results (01:33 – 03:18)

  • Zoron Momdani won the Democratic mayoral primary nomination, with Patrick making satirical commentary about the outcome.

Health Issues (03:18 – 04:42)

  • Patrick contracted strep throat mid-week, initially mistaking symptoms for COVID before receiving proper diagnosis and antibiotics treatment.

Risk Podcast Performance (04:42 – 06:14)

  • Patrick performed a story he’s been telling since 2017 on the Risk Storytelling podcast Thursday night despite being ill, receiving positive feedback from Ross.

Family Injury (06:14 – 07:43)

  • Ross broke her foot doing a cannonball in Aunt Nat’s pool on Monday, requiring early return from upstate trip and affecting her mobility.

Childcare Gap (07:43 – 10:56)

  • Family navigating week between end of school and start of summer camp, requiring full-time childcare coverage.

‍️ Ulster County Pool Visit (10:56 – 12:18)

  • Patrick took Franny to the Ulster County pool in New Paltz, revisiting location from his childhood Summer Recreation program 35 years ago.

Childhood Memories (12:18 – 16:50)

  • Detailed recollection of summer camp experiences including memorable encounters with bus driver Jack and his distinctive shower habits.

Family Activities Upstate (16:50 – 18:19)

  • Visit to Stap Dairy Farm in Pine Bush where Franny interacted with farm animals including cows, goats, and kittens.

Wildlife Encounters (18:19 – 00:00)

  • Franny hand-fed domesticated deer in Walden, facilitated by tenant who regularly feeds them Cheerios.

 

Action items
Unassigned

  • Record another podcast episode with Ross when she recovers from foot injury (00:00)
  • Upload podcast episode by end of Wednesday to maintain schedule (00:00)
  • Plan summer pool and beach activities around NYC public pool schedule (11am-3pm, 4pm-7pm daily) (00:00)
  • Coordinate Franny’s summer camp pickup (3pm) with pool schedule timing (00:00)