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Ep. 184 “You Can’t Punch Children”

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In episode 184 of the podcast, the host records a solo segment to maintain the weekly Wednesday release schedule while acknowledging the absence of his co-host due to spring break. He starts by sharing exciting updates, including the upcoming release of his comedy special “Qualification” on April 22nd, which will be available for purchase or rental on streaming platforms. The host reflects on his experience with the “Troublemakers” podcast, discussing the discomfort of sharing clips featuring sensitive content and navigating the implications of doing so. He recounts a recent confrontation at a playground involving older boys playing soccer dangerously near younger children, noting his awareness of the potential for escalation given his background. The episode concludes with announcements about his upcoming shows in the Binghamton area, encouraging listeners to attend and support his comedy career, as well as to check out his appearance on “Troublemakers.”

 

Notes
️ Podcast Introduction and Updates (00:00 – 03:30)

  • Host is recording a short episode without a co-host due to spring break (no sitter today)
  • Only has about 10-15 minutes to record to maintain weekly Wednesday release schedule
  • Announces comedy special ‘Qualification’ releasing on April 22nd
  • Special will be available to buy or rent on streaming platforms
  • Eventually will be free online, but not for several months

Podcast Experience Discussion (03:31 – 06:30)

  • Host shares experience on ‘Troublemakers’ podcast with Dylan and Dominic
  • Discussion about feeling uncomfortable sharing clips from that podcast that contained ‘locker room talk’
  • Internal conflict about whether to share these clips on social media
  • Concern about school administrators and others seeing this content

️ Playground Confrontation (06:31 – 14:00)

  • Host describes incident at playground with his child
  • Soccer ball kicked by older boys (around 12-13 years old) hit another parent
  • After continued dangerous play near young children on swings, host confronted the boys
  • Host recognizes he might have escalated the situation with Latino boys as a white man
  • Discussion of his recognition that the situation could have become more problematic
  • Later apologized to the other father who was hit by the ball

Upcoming Shows and Closing (14:01 – 15:07)

  • Announces headlining shows in Binghamton area
  • Friday night show at Crooked Mouth Brewery in Endicott, NY
  • Saturday night show at ‘Don’t Tell Binghamton area show’
  • Encourages listeners to attend his shows and buy/rent his special

 

Action items
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  • Viewers should buy or rent the comedy special ‘Qualification’ when it releases on April 22nd (01:15)
  • Listeners interested in hearing the host’s appearance can check out the Troublemakers podcast (03:51)
  • Listeners in the Binghamton area should attend the host’s shows on Friday at Crooked Mouth Brewery and Saturday at Don’t Tell Binghamton (14:32)

Ep. 183 “Jacked Up for a Moose Knuckle” LIMITED EPISODE

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In the 183rd episode of the “We Hired a Sitter for This” podcast, hosts Patrick Holbert and Ross Erin Martineau kick off with personal anecdotes, including Patrick’s new jogging routine and the recent construction noise in Brooklyn. As they transition into the main topics, they explore their unique relationship dynamics, touching on Ross’s feelings towards the term ‘polyamory’ and recalling their contrasting high school experiences. The conversation shifts to home life, where they discuss family organization and their daughter’s growth. They also delve into podcast business matters, announcing the launch of their Patreon at $5/month and hinting at exclusive content, including a comedy set from Patrick. The episode concludes with light-hearted closing remarks and a push for Patreon subscriptions, emphasizing the value of their podcast efforts. Action items include uploading the comedy set and setting the episode title to ‘Jacked up for a Moose Knuckle.’

️ Podcast Introduction (00:00 – 01:30)

  • ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast episode 183 introduction
  • Hosts Patrick Holbert and Ross Erin Martineau introduced
  • Patrick described Ross’s wife’s professions: yoga teacher, birth doula, postpartum doula

Personal Updates (01:31 – 05:00)

  • Construction noise mentioned in their Brooklyn neighborhood
  • Patrick started jogging recently – did 1.6 miles two days in a row
  • Patrick feeling better mentally since starting to exercise
  • Brief mention of podcast recordings Patrick has been doing lately
  • Discussion about their dog Peggy who joins them during recording

Relationship Discussion (05:01 – 10:00)

  • Brief discussion about their polyamorous relationship
  • Ross mentioned feeling uncomfortable with the term ‘poly’
  • They joked about not having enough space in their home for ‘real polyamory’
  • Patrick mentioned Ross presents as ‘straight cis white man’ but is actually ‘weird in good ways’
  • Discussion about high school experiences – Ross loved high school while Patrick was ‘traumatized’
  • Ross admitted to having been a bully in his youth (‘cruel to the defenseless’)

Home and Family Life (10:01 – 15:00)

  • Discussion about kitchen clutter and organizing with containers
  • Their daughter has been playing with her dollhouse and making art
  • Praise for their daughter’s independence at school drop-off
  • Patrick jogs to meetings now
  • Conversation about Ross’s attraction patterns and how Patrick responds differently to Ross when he’s depressed

Podcast Business (15:01 – 20:00)

  • Announcement of their Patreon launch at $1.99/month
  • Patrick considering uploading a comedy set that may have gotten him ‘demoted’ at Zany’s Comedy Club
  • Brief discussion about releasing content temporarily for subscribers
  • Nostalgic conversation about high school bullying and social hierarchies
  • Episode ends with reminder about Patreon subscription at $1.99/month

Ep. 182 “Bagel Stackers” LIMITED EPISODE

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For $1.99 per month you can hear the entirety of our regular podcast episodes. For $5 or more a month- (It’s a pay-what-you-will structure) you will get lots of extra pod cast episodes with juicy details and other comedy/yoga/birth work content.

In the latest episode of the podcast “We Hired a Sitter for This,” hosts Patrick Holbert and Ross Erin Martineau kick off by discussing their personal health challenges, including dealing with persistent illness and sore throats after a recent trip to Denver. They talk about their TV viewing habits, specifically the shows “Severance” and “White Lotus,” and the impact of separate viewing experiences. The conversation then shifts to Ross’s involvement in a lactation eating specialist program, highlighting societal issues surrounding women’s bodies and breastfeeding. The duo also reflects on their exercise routines, struggles to incorporate fitness into family life, and amusing anecdotes about their pets. They celebrate personal milestones, including Patrick’s 44th birthday and Ross’s 16 years of sobriety, and wrap up the episode with a pitch for their Patreon offerings. Action items are assigned, including plans for content creation and resolving audio issues.
Notes️ Podcast Introduction (00:00 – 03:00)

Patrick Holbert and Ross Erin Martineau introducing episode 182 of ‘We Hired a Sitter for this’
Patrick and Ross discuss their recent sickness and how it has affected their lives and podcasting schedule.
They emphasize the importance of maintaining their recording schedule despite personal challenges.
The couple reflects on their shared viewing experiences of shows like “Severance” and “White Lotus” as a way to connect.
Ross has a sore throat; both hosts have been dealing with sickness for 10 days
They mention watching TV shows Severance and White Lotus
Patrick mentions Ross watched Severance without him which affected their TV time together

Health and Travel Updates (03:00 – 07:15)

Hosts recently returned from Denver where they visited Patrick’s brother
Everyone involved in the trip got sick
Patrick apologizes for audio quality issues in previous episode
Patrick mentions having an ‘achy nut’ which may be related to illness
They note it’s April Fool’s Day and express dislike for misinformation pranks
Ross mentions working with a financial advisor and having assignments

Lactation Specialist Discussion (07:15 – 12:30)

Ross discusses taking a lactation eating specialist program
Conversation about how lactation connects to broader issues about women’s bodies
Ross shares how breastfeeding in public was once illegal and remains controversial
Discussion about societal attitudes toward women’s bodies and breastfeeding
Anecdote about seeing a mother breastfeeding at a playground in Denver

Exercise and Family Life (12:30 – 19:00)

Patrick mentions being behind on workouts, promising 3-5 weekly sessions but only completing one
They discuss doing exercises at playgrounds with their child
Conversation about incorporating exercise into daily routine (‘stacking’)
Discussion about their dog Peggy’s personality compared to their niece’s dog Scout
Peggy is described as self-interested while Scout is emotionally attuned to her family

Personal Updates (19:00 – 23:25)

Patrick celebrated his 44th birthday on March 20th
Ross celebrated 16 years of sobriety
Birthday celebration at Kellogg diner with their daughter Franny
Humorous discussion about ‘bagel stackers’ at Panera Bread
Episode ends with a pitch for their Patreon starting at 1.99/month for full episodes and 5/month for bonus content

Ep. 181 “Puke & Rally”

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In the latest episode of the ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast, hosted by Ross and Patrick, they convene in a lively outdoor setting in Centennial, Colorado, amidst the background buzz of construction noise. The episode kicks off with a humorous recount of travel mishaps, including an early morning cab ride incident involving Ross’s daughter, Fran, which set the tone for their family visit, crowded with 12 relatives sharing a house. The discussion delves into Ross’s surprising experience at a hot yoga class, where the unanticipated heat led to lightheadedness and an emotional outburst, drawing parallels to the intensity of such experiences. The hosts also cherish moments spent with family, like ice cream binges, and consider expanding their podcast’s reach through Patreon subscription tiers, as they contemplate recording a podcast with their siblings that evening.

 

Notes
️ Podcast Introduction and Setting (00:00 – 05:00)

  • Ross and Patrick hosting the ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast, episode 181
  • Recording in Colorado in the backyard of Ross’s brother PJ’s home
  • Discussing recording outside with construction noise in the background
  • Setting described as Centennial, Colorado, with a princess castle nearby
  • Mentioned that episodes are now also on YouTube

Travel Mishaps and Family Visit (05:00 – 15:00)

  • Travel began with a ‘fire drill’ – Fran (Ross and Patrick’s daughter) vomited in the cab on the way to the airport at 4am
  • Had to rush back upstairs to change clothes before continuing to airport
  • The family handled the situation efficiently, working as a team
  • Currently visiting family in Colorado with 12 people in the house
  • Ross’s father, sister, brother, sister-in-law, and brother’s in-laws all present
  • Children experiencing typical ‘spring break sickness’

‍️ Hot Yoga Experience (15:00 – 25:00)

  • Ross attended a hot yoga class that wasn’t labeled as ‘hot yoga’ on the booking app
  • Ross felt lightheaded due to the combination of heat and elevation (5,280 ft)
  • Had to leave the class early due to near-fainting symptoms
  • Experienced unexpected emotional response (crying) after leaving the class
  • Discussion about how hot yoga creates manufactured intense experiences
  • Connection made between hot yoga, breath control, and cult-like leadership

Family Time and Podcast Updates (25:00 – 29:10)

  • Ross sharing about ice cream binges with his father as a bonding experience
  • Discussion about the family enjoying quality time together
  • Mention of their Patreon account that currently has no subscribers
  • Considering offering different tier options for the podcast (possibly $1-2)
  • Alternative idea of releasing partial episodes on free feed with full versions on Patreon

 

Ep. 180 “Children of Pauls”

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In episode 180 Patrick Holbert and Ross Erin Martineau first focused on the technical setup by checking audio levels and introducing themselves, alongside their pet Peggy Pickles. Next, they delved into a financial discussion about populating their Patreon page with unique content, including a potential naked comedy set, and the importance of hiring a financial counselor. They also shared updates on personal projects like Patrick’s upcoming documentary and comedy special, grappling with the uncertainties of income from these ventures. The conversation shifted to family life, including anecdotes from a recent outing with their daughter, followed by plans for an upcoming trip to Colorado for family visits and comedy shows, with a mention of exploring Meow Wolf. Finally, they lightheartedly joked about their fathers and considered a reality show concept featuring them, while also expressing interest in researching their family genealogy. Key action items included setting up their Patreon account, meeting with a financial planner, promoting Patrick’s shows, and starting a family tree project.

 

Notes

️ Podcast Recording Setup (00:01 – 05:00)

  • Checking audio levels and equipment
  • Discussing episode number (possibly 180)
  • Introducing hosts Patrick Holbert and Ross Aaron Martineau
  • Mentioning Peggy Pickles (possibly a pet)

Financial Discussion and Patreon (05:00 – 15:00)

  • Planning to populate Patreon with content
  • Discussing potential Patreon content (e.g., naked comedy set)
  • Talking about hiring a financial planner/counselor (Jen Mayer from We Are Fully Funded)
  • Discussing the importance of hiring professionals for various life aspects

Personal Projects and Career (15:00 – 25:00)

  • Mentioning upcoming documentary “Tom Dustin Portrait of a Comedian”
  • Discussing Patrick’s comedy special release on April 22nd
  • Talking about uncertainties regarding income from these projects

‍‍ Family and Personal Life (25:00 – 35:00)

  • Discussing recent trip to a play place with their daughter
  • Sharing funny observations about other parents and children at the play place
  • Talking about the challenges of parenting in public spaces

️ Upcoming Trip to Colorado (35:00 – 45:00)

  • Planning visit to family in Colorado
  • Mentioning Patrick’s comedy shows in Denver and Boulder
  • Discussing potential visit to Meow Wolf

Family Dynamics and Humor (45:00 – 50:15)

  • Joking about their fathers’ different personalities and habits
  • Discussing potential reality show idea featuring their dads
  • Mentioning interest in exploring family genealogy

 

Action items
Patrick Holbert and Ross Erin Martineau

  • Set up Patreon account and populate with content (04:54)
  • Prepare for meeting with financial planner Jen Mayer on Thursday (06:51)
  • Consider visiting Meow Wolf during Colorado trip (41:55)
  • Start family tree on heritage.com (48:14)

Patrick Holbert

  • Promote upcoming comedy shows in Denver and Boulder (42:44)

Ep. 179 “American Pickers”

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In Episode 179 of “We Hired a Sitter For This,” hosts Ross Erin Martineau and Patrick Holbert initiated the session with a personal anecdote from Ross about his past nose injury, setting a conversational tone. They delved into topics of body image, discussing dermatillomania, body dysmorphia, and societal pressures surrounding physical appearance, while reflecting on their evolving self-perceptions with age; this included conversations about aging, physical discomfort, and the objectification of women’s bodies. They also shared insights on entertainment, discussing reality TV and CBS sitcoms, before transitioning to the challenges of freelance work, covering issues such as late payments, advocacy for fair treatment, and the effects of AI on their industry. Key action items included Ross’s plans to set up a Patreon for listener engagement and revenue, while Patrick needs to secure HBO Max login details for future show discussions.

 

Notes
️ Podcast Introduction and Setup (00:05 – 10:27)

  • Recording setup and audio syncing discussed
  • Introduction of hosts Ross Aaron Margeneau and Patrick Holbert
  • Episode 179 of “We Hired a Sitter” podcast
  • Discussion about Ross’s past nose injury and surgery experience
  • Conversation about body image and self-consciousness

Body Image and Self-Perception (10:28 – 22:02)

  • Talked about dermatillomania and Ross’s experience with it
  • Discussed body dysmorphia and societal pressures on appearance
  • Conversation about breast size and its impact during adolescence
  • Patrick shared his changing preferences in physical attraction over time

Aging and Self-Perception (22:02 – 32:18)

  • Discussion about noticing physical changes with age
  • Conversation about neck pain and physical discomfort
  • Talked about Ross’s experience with pregnancy and body changes
  • Discussion about societal expectations and objectification of women’s bodies

TV Shows and Family (32:18 – 42:25)

  • Discussed various reality TV shows they’re watching
  • Conversation about CBS sitcoms and Fran’s reaction to them
  • Talked about wildfires in different locations
  • Discussion about freelance work and payment issues

Freelance Work and Finances (42:25 – 54:41)

  • Detailed discussion about freelance work challenges
  • Conversation about late payments and advocating for fair treatment
  • Discussed the impact of AI on their work
  • Talked about tax filing and potential extensions
  • Interruption by someone at the door

 

Ep. 178 “Expired Hand Cream”

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Overview
In the “Expired Hand Cream” podcast recording, hosts Patrick Holbert and Ross Aaron Martineau discuss various topics while managing technical difficulties from their remote locations in Appleton, Wisconsin, and Brooklyn, New York. The meeting opens with an introduction and conversation about the challenges of podcasting remotely, followed by Patrick contemplating an extended stay in Appleton and the associated accommodation logistics. Personal anecdotes emerge, including Patrick’s purchases for skincare and their differing perspectives on shopping habits. The duo then dives into their entertainment preferences, reminiscing about past vacations and current favorite shows. They also update each other on work-related projects, including a fundraiser yoga class Ross is planning and Patrick’s upcoming comedy gigs, while considering a Patreon setup for their podcast. Action items were assigned to both hosts, including deciding on accommodation and coordinating future recordings.

 

Notes

️ Podcast Introduction and Setup (00:00 – 09:15)

  • Patrick Holbert and Ross Aaron Martineau hosting ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast
  • Recording remotely from Appleton, Wisconsin and Brooklyn, New York
  • Discussing technical difficulties and remote podcast setup
  • Ross mentions feeling tired from teaching yoga and parenting

Accommodation and Travel Logistics (09:15 – 18:43)

  • Patrick considering extending stay in Appleton due to gap in schedule
  • Debating whether to pay extra for current accommodation or find cheaper option in Chicago
  • Ross advises Patrick to stay in current comfortable accommodation
  • Patrick shares story about previous uncomfortable Airbnb experience in New Mexico

Personal Care and Shopping Habits (18:45 – 27:55)

  • Patrick bought diabetic hand lotion from Marshalls due to dry skin
  • Discussing Patrick’s tendency to opt for cheaper options
  • Ross expresses concern over Patrick’s shopping habits and self-care choices

Entertainment and Media Discussion (27:55 – 39:01)

  • Ross watching Real Housewives of Potomac
  • Reminiscing about their first vacation together in Bermuda
  • Patrick mentions discussing TV show ‘Traitors’ with fellow comedians
  • Conversation about comedian Robbie Hoffman and her work

Work and Personal Updates (39:01 – 50:33)

  • Ross planning fundraiser yoga class for Make the Road New York
  • Patrick sharing upcoming comedy show dates in Illinois
  • Discussing potential Patreon setup for the podcast
  • Brief mention of past experiences in TV production
  • Wrapping up the podcast and planning future recordings

 

Action items

Patrick Holbert

  • Patrick to decide on extending stay in Appleton (10:00)
  • Patrick to include Ross’s fundraiser information in podcast notes (41:45)

Ross Aaron Martineau

  • Ross to send link for fundraiser yoga class information (41:45)

Unassigned

  • Both to work on setting up Patreon for the podcast (40:32)
  • Plan another Zoom call before Patrick returns home (50:16)

Ep. 177 “Backward Peg Leg”

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Overview

In episode 177 of the “We Hired a Sitter for This” podcast, hosts Patrick Holbert and Ross Martineau reflect on their eight years of marriage and podcasting, while sharing personal updates including Ross’s upcoming yoga class fundraiser on March 8th and his 11-day trip, as well as Patrick’s fitness journey. They also discuss their careers—Patrick’s role as a life coach and Ross’s work as a yoga instructor and postpartum doula—before brainstorming ideas for establishing a Patreon account to offer additional content, including yoga classes and Ross’s journey of sobriety as he celebrates 16 years. Action items include preparing for the yoga fundraiser, sourcing a microphone for yoga classes, and setting up the Patreon account.

Notes

🎙️ Podcast Introduction and Reflection (00:00 – 11:05)

  • Episode 177 of ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast
  • Hosts Patrick Holbert and Ross Martineau
  • Reflecting on 8 years of marriage and podcasting
  • Discussion about Ross’s Friday night yoga class and playlist curation
  • Upcoming fundraiser yoga class on March 8th with live DJ

🏋️ Personal Updates and Relationship Reflection (11:05 – 21:59)

  • Patrick’s recent workout routine and fitness goals
  • Ross’s upcoming 11-day trip
  • Reflection on their 8-year marriage and 14-year relationship
  • Discussion about the challenges of early parenthood
  • Appreciation for each other’s support in personal and professional goals

💼 Career and Content Creation (21:59 – 31:52)

  • Patrick’s work as a life coach/sober companion
  • Ross’s work as a yoga instructor and postpartum doula
  • Discussion about creating a Patreon for additional content
  • Brainstorming ideas for Patreon tiers and content

💰 Patreon Plans and Future Content (31:52 – 42:59)

  • Decision to start a Patreon with $5/month base tier
  • Ideas for Patreon content: yoga classes, birth work commentary, comedy sets
  • Discussion about balancing professional and personal content
  • Ross’s upcoming 16-year sobriety anniversary
  • Plans for a special Patreon episode about Ross’s sobriety journey

Action Items

Ross Martineau

  • Prepare for fundraiser yoga class on March 8th (04:15)

Patrick Holbert

  • Help Ross find a Britney Spears-style microphone for yoga classes (04:36)

Unassigned

  • Set up Patreon account and determine content tiers (31:52)
  • Record a Patreon episode about Ross’s 16 years of sobriety (41:17)

Ep. 176 “Stage 4 Billionaire”

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Overview
In the Solo Podcast Recording meeting titled “Stage 4 Billionaire,” host Patrick Holbert introduces the latest episode of his podcast “We Hired a Sitter for This” and shares personal updates, including reflections on his 8th wedding anniversary and a recent comedy show experience. He reminisces about childhood rollerblading, discusses the complexities of adult friendships, and expresses concerns about wealth inequality and economic challenges, particularly in the subscription-based economy. Alongside critiques of social media’s impact on artists and views on Trump’s policies, Patrick outlines his upcoming comedy performances and expresses a commitment to advancing his career in comedy and filmmaking. Key action items include performing at various venues, participating in a fundraiser, and attending a film premiere.

 

Notes

️ Podcast Introduction and Personal Updates (00:00 – 09:36)

  • Patrick Holbert introduces ‘We Hired a Sitter for This’ podcast
  • Discusses personal appearance and recording setup
  • Mentions 176th episode and recent solo recordings
  • Reflects on 8th wedding anniversary with Ross
  • Shares anecdote about Nathan Lee attending a comedy show

Reflections on Past and Present (09:37 – 22:28)

  • Reminisces about childhood activities, particularly rollerblading
  • Discusses the perception of rollerblading vs. skateboarding
  • Reflects on maintaining friendships into adulthood
  • Mentions current work situation and financial concerns
  • Expresses frustration with billionaires and wealth inequality

Economic and Social Commentary (22:28 – 34:56)

  • Critiques subscription-based economy and its impact on artists
  • Discusses the role of social media in advertising
  • Expresses concern about the future of work and retirement
  • Shares thoughts on Trump’s economic policies and manufacturing
  • Proposes ideas for revitalizing American manufacturing

️ Upcoming Events and Personal Goals (34:58 – 43:08)

  • Lists upcoming comedy shows and dates
  • Mentions premiere of ‘Tom Dustin Portrait of a Comedian’
  • Expresses desire to focus on comedy and filmmaking career
  • Discusses recent editing work and future aspirations
  • Congratulates Gastor on directorial debut

 

Action items

Patrick Holbert

  • Perform at Fairfield Comedy Circle in Connecticut (36:40)
  • Emcee at the Laugh Tour in Jersey City (37:33)
  • Feature at Tilly’s Farm Table in Westchester County (37:40)
  • Potentially perform in Denver during family trip (38:10)
  • Perform in Sullivan County and Binghamton (38:32)
  • Participate in Josh Tatum’s fundraiser show in Highland, NY (38:39)
  • Attend NYC premiere of ‘Tom Dustin Portrait of a Comedian’ at Quad Cinemas (38:46)

Ep. 175 “A Brief Hold”

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Overview

In the latest episode of “We Hired a Sitter for This,” the host shares a candid monologue reflecting on their challenging week, marked by fatigue from recent flu and Covid vaccinations, and the struggles of juggling a busy career as a stand-up comedian in New York City while managing financial stress. The episode recounts enjoyable weekend moments spent playing in the snow with their daughter, Franny, and visiting the Whitney Museum, though it took a turn as post-outing food choices led to health concerns. The host discusses a particularly tough day at work dealing with mental health clients and a chaotic encounter with an impatient customer at a car rental, highlighting the pressures of capitalism and customer service expectations. Throughout the monologue, the host expresses a desire to adopt healthier eating habits and a commitment to maintain a consistent podcast release schedule while embracing more of the cultural experiences New York City has to offer.

 

Notes

️ Podcast Introduction and Host’s Current State (00:00 – 05:05)

  • Podcast: “We Hired a Sitter for This”
  • Host feeling unwell after receiving flu and Covid vaccines
  • Recording late due to fatigue and busy schedule
  • Stand-up comedian in New York City
  • Financial stress and hustling for work

️ Weekend Activities and Family Time (05:05 – 09:53)

  • Played in snow with daughter Franny
  • Visited Whitney Museum on free Second Sunday
  • Crowded museum experience with Franny
  • Ate at Shake Shack, possibly causing illness

Health Concerns and Work Challenges (09:55 – 15:00)

  • Feeling sick after eating junk food
  • Desire to break unhealthy eating habits
  • Difficult day at work with mental health clients
  • Encounter with a challenging customer (Karen) at car rental return

Car Rental Return Incident (15:00 – 21:05)

  • Chaotic scene at Enterprise car rental
  • Worker overwhelmed by multiple customers and constant phone calls
  • Karen’s disruptive behavior and worker’s emotional breakdown
  • Reflection on capitalism and customer expectations
Action items
Unassigned

  • Maintain consistent podcast release schedule (01:33)
  • Consider making more effort to experience New York City culture (08:10)
  • Use current illness as motivation to break unhealthy eating habits (10:39)