Tag Archives: Gender

Ep. 050 – Who cares about open relationships??

July 1, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12 steps, brooklyn, cheating, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, ethical non-monogamy, Gender, lies, Love, Marriage, modern love, polyamory, pride, recovery, romance, secrecy, Sex, SobrietyPatrick Holbert

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It’s episode 50!! Can you believe it?? It only took this duo 50 episodes to decide what they really care about (or at least what they actually want to talk about): Sex, love, alternative relationships, and everything in between! This week Ross and Patrick reveal more about their foray into ethical non-monogamy and their plans for sexual world domination (Kidding! They only wanna start a sex cult. Or maybe a commune). Does all this sound scary and confusing and like too much information? Then maybe sit this one out. Or does it sound captivating and titillating and like you’ve always had questions about things like this? Then dive into the warm poly embrace of this week’s show. XOXO!

Ep. 048 – Who cares about episode 48??

June 17, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedAlcoholism, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Drugs, Fashion, feminism, Gender, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, nyc, open marriage, podcast, politics, polyamory, Reality TV, recovery, Relationships, sexual health, Sexual misconduct, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, STI's, Substance Abuse, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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This week Patrick and Ross and their third co-host and dog, Peggy, drive southbound on I-95 and talk about all sorts of things. (Well truthfully, Patrick and Ross do most of the talking while Peggy naps in a donut formation in the back seat). Take a listen as The Family Holbertineau mourns the passing of their dear Aunt Sue, discuss father’s day, and share their gratitude for the kind feedback about last week’s bombshell episode from supportive listeners. Get Pegged ya’ll!

Ep. 047 – Who cares about STI’s??

June 10, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, brooklyn, Consent, couples, dating, Drugs, Feeld, fetish, Gender, herpes, homosexuality, hpv, kink, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, open marriage, orgy, podcast, poly, polyamory, Rape, Sexual harrasment, sexual health, Sexual misconduct, sexually transmitted infections, sober, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, STD's, STI's, swingers, Tinder, wellness, yogaPatrick Holbert

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On their most revealing episode yet, Ross & Patrick discuss STI’s, non-monogamy, and sex in general. If you thought it was impossible for them to be even more transparent, take a listen as Ross shouts her truth from the rooftop while Patrick skittishly divulges his. With this podcast, they hope that by opening up more, they can promote more positive conversation around sexual health and relationships. Open your mind (and maybe your legs) to this week’s show!

Ep. 043 – Who cares about Mother’s Day??

May 13, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedbrooklyn, children, couples, dating, family, Gender, holidays, Love, Marriage, mental health, mother's day, new york city, parents, podcast, recovery, Relationships, standup comedyPatrick Holbert

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Happy Mother’s Day, y’all! This week we take some time to thank all the mamas out there. Mothers can be biological, surrogate, adopted, chosen, or any other way you can think of someone becoming a MOTHER. Ross and Patrick start by celebrating the women who birthed them into existence, Betty Ann and Jane. Listen in as these two moms make guest appearances on this week’s episode as Ross and Patrick make their mother’s day phone calls. Come share in the love! Matriarchy Now!

Ep. 042 – Who cares about The Wig Lady??

May 6, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedbrooklyn, cancel culture, Comedy, couples, dating, Drag, Fashion, Gender, life, Love, mental health, michael jackson, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, Reality TV, Relationships, RuPaul, RuPaul's Drag Race, Sex, Sexual harrasment, Sexual misconduct, wardrobe stylistPatrick Holbert

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Ladies and gentlemen put your hands up and your dollars down for Nefertiti!!! She is a fellow wardrobe stylist and a good “Judy” of Ross.’ Take a listen as she explains her love for beauty, makeup, and glamour. And boy bands. And Selena. And RuPaul’s Drag Race. And Motley Crue, and Red Hot Chili Peppers, and Tupac, and Murder She Wrote, and Columbo. She’s a complicated woman, ok? She’s got taste and opinions and she’s not afraid to tell you all about it. Nef has come to the Who Cares recording studio to spill the T, and throw the shade (when warranted). Enjoy!

Ep. 038 – Who cares about our bestie Danielle??

April 8, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, Comedy, couples, dating, Drag, Drugs, Gender, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, podcast, politics, Reality TV, Religion, Sobriety, standup, Substance Abuse, the bachelor, wellness, yogaPatrick Holbert

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Finally! Danielle, a virgo, promptly arrives on the podcast and spills all the T. She is not only a teacher, wife, and mother, but she’s also a well read pop culture queen. Join Ross, Patrick, and Danielle as they take a walk down memory lane and discuss how this chosen family truly began and withstood early sobriety in the hipster capital of the world, Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Despite Ross’ hatred for pop punk, love still thrived.

Ep. 036 – Who cares about Maryam Ajayi?

March 25, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, coal, Comedy, couples, dating, death, democrat, Drag, Drugs, energy, environment, Fashion, Gender, healing, life, lobbyists, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nigeria, podcast, politics, recovery, reiki, Relationships, republican, Sobriety, standup comedy, wellness, yogaPatrick Holbert

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To say that this woman is inspiring is an understatement! Maryam Ajayi is a trailblazer in the wellness world. Specializing in reiki and breath work, she’s working hard to make healing and self care inclusionary and accessible. Never shying away from challenging conversation, she has written thought provoking pieces for medium.com and has begun holding monthly salons to discuss diversity in wellness. Maryam also spills the “T” on her former life as a republican and how she plans to bring about change in the business world through intuitive energy work. Ross and Patrick thought about asking Maryam to create a thrupple but instead just decided to have an incredibly interesting chat. Join them, won’t you?

Ep. 035 – Who cares about Ross Days?

March 18, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Drugs, Fashion, Gender, Halloween, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, Reality TV, recovery, Relationships, Religion, RuPaul, standup comedy, Substance Abuse, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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Soul Cycle Instructor, Comedienne, Actress, International Icon. Ross Days is serving “Rihanna At The Airport” meets the Olsen twins and he’s here to talk about it. That’s right, TWO ROSSES!!! Can you believe it? How will Patrick fair? Have no idea what any of this means? Well tune in and unpack the mythical ADHD creature that is Ross….

Ep. 034 – Who cares about The Bachelor Finale??

March 11, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedComedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drugs, Gender, Halloween, holidays, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, nyc, podcast, politics, Rape, Rape Culture, Reality TV, Religion, Sexual misconduct, standup, standup comedy, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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Hi, can we steal you for a sec?? Ultimately, we knew from the moment we started watching the bachelor that it was going to be an experience that changed us for the rest of our lives. This journey has taught us so much about ourselves and that love isn’t something you can force, you know? We really hope you’re here for the right reasons because otherwise we’re going to throw you under the bus!

This is quite possibly our most obnoxious episode yet. If you’re passionate about the American institution of BACHELOR NATION, then this episode is for you! If you think The Bachelor is a shameful trash fest and that it’d be enjoyable to watch Chris Harrison dragged across a field of thorned roses, then this convo is also for you. We love it, we hate it, it’s the glue that keeps our marriage together. So come huff on these fumes and enjoy the ride to where the mountains meet the ocean!

Ep. 033 – Who cares about Jason Rodgers??

March 4, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedComedy, couples, dating, death, Drugs, Fashion, Gender, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, Reality TV, Relationships, RuPaul, RuPaul's Drag Race, Sex, the bachelor, yogaPatrick Holbert

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Ross’ work husband Jason Rodgers swings by to discuss Reality TV, finding kindred spirits in the fashion industry, and a possible spin off podcast. No one knows more about pop culture and television than Jason. Come with us as we take a deep dive into RuPaul’s drag race, Lohan Beach Club, and any other random show that comes to mind. We’re living in a Reality TV Presidency, people. We have to do our research!