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Ep. 059 – Who cares about The Great Outdoors??

September 9, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, brooklyn, camping, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, ethical non-monogamy, Fashion, Gender, Love, Marriage, mental health, millenials, new york city, podcast, polyamory, relationship goals, RelationshipsPatrick Holbert

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Did you miss Ross and Patrick last week? They felt terrible that they didn’t record an episode for you. (Just tell them you missed them. They’re very sensitive and crave validation). Have no fear, they’re back and they recorded while driving upstate because vehicular multitasking is worth it for their fans. It’s you all who keep this empire running. The fans and Jesus. Mostly Jesus actually (Is anyone else watching ‘The Family’ on Netflix??). Anyway on this episode, R and P talk camping, 12 step programs, cults, and up tight neighbors. Cool, right?

Ep. 058 – Who cares about Billy Procida??

August 26, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedAlcoholism, BDSM, brooklyn, Consent, couples, dating, domination, Drugs, Gender, homosexuality, Love, Marriage, mental health, nyc, podcast, polyamory, Rape Culture, Religion, Sex, sex positive, sex positivity, Sexual misconduct, standup, standup comedy, therapy, trans, wellnessPatrick Holbert

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Billy Procida, the “Manwhore” himself, is in the Who Cares podcast studio! He talks to Ross and Patrick about standup, podcasting, sex work, and turning his sex positive slut lifestyle into a career. Billy claims to be extremely problematic but Ross only found minor problems here and there. Overall, this threesome had a lovely in depth conversation about relationships, sex, and societal closed mindedness. The trio also decided they’re doing the lord’s work and that the world needs more whores out in the open, especially in this political climate. So tie yourself up, grab your vibrator and have a listen to Billy Procida!

Check out Billy’s show, “The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest” here!

Ep. 054 – Who cares about healing after breakups??

July 29, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, breakups, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Fashion, feminism, gay beach, Gender, jacob riis, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, Sex, sober, summer, therapy, wellnessPatrick Holbert

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He’s our (self-proclaimed) #1 fan and newly appointed President of the Who Cares Fan Club. This week we welcome back Bro of the show Dave Martineau! He’s 31, he’s single, he’s in therapy, and he’s uncomfortable with his sister’s openness. Dave traveled to NYC for the weekend to bro down with his sis by going to karaoke, the beach, and watching a healthy dose of Xanax television (The Office). He regales Patrick and Ross with insane tales of online dating, and his plans to rescue dogs from negligent women via dating apps. Pop in your head phones, turn up the volume, and get your tinnitus pumping while your hosts give unsolicited advice to their numero uno.

Ep. 053 – Who cares about dating while married??

July 22, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, brooklyn, Comedy, couples, death, Drag, Drugs, Gender, homosexuality, life, Marriage, mental health, podcast, Sex, sober, wellnessPatrick Holbert

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Did you know there’s a sex-positive dating app for singles and couples? Well there is and Ross and Patrick have done lots of swiping left and right. In this episode, they talk about digital dating while married and how doing so after 7 years of monogamy is fuckin’ scary! Couples therapy has saved R and P more than once and transparency and negotiation are the keys to their open relationship. This one is so fun they sing a song about a herpes infected eagle! You’re definitely gonna want to add it to your Spotify playlist.

Ep. 052 – Who cares about teamwork??

July 15, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, Comedy, couples, death, Drag, Fashion, Gender, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, Relationships, Sobriety, standup comedy, Substance Abuse, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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This week Patrick and Ross catch up after being separated by The Road for four days. Ross experiences shades of single motherhood while Patrick was out performing at various breweries around the northeast trying to make enough money to feed his dog-ter back home. Listen in as the two share their respective adventures and discuss life ahead.

Ep. 048 – Who cares about episode 48??

June 17, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, UncategorizedAlcoholism, brooklyn, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, Drag, Drugs, Fashion, feminism, Gender, homosexuality, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, nyc, open marriage, podcast, politics, polyamory, Reality TV, recovery, Relationships, sexual health, Sexual misconduct, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, STI's, Substance Abuse, the bachelorPatrick Holbert

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This week Patrick and Ross and their third co-host and dog, Peggy, drive southbound on I-95 and talk about all sorts of things. (Well truthfully, Patrick and Ross do most of the talking while Peggy naps in a donut formation in the back seat). Take a listen as The Family Holbertineau mourns the passing of their dear Aunt Sue, discuss father’s day, and share their gratitude for the kind feedback about last week’s bombshell episode from supportive listeners. Get Pegged ya’ll!

Ep. 047 – Who cares about STI’s??

June 10, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorized12steps, Alcoholism, brooklyn, Consent, couples, dating, Drugs, Feeld, fetish, Gender, herpes, homosexuality, hpv, kink, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, open marriage, orgy, podcast, poly, polyamory, Rape, Sexual harrasment, sexual health, Sexual misconduct, sexually transmitted infections, sober, Sobriety, standup, standup comedy, STD's, STI's, swingers, Tinder, wellness, yogaPatrick Holbert

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On their most revealing episode yet, Ross & Patrick discuss STI’s, non-monogamy, and sex in general. If you thought it was impossible for them to be even more transparent, take a listen as Ross shouts her truth from the rooftop while Patrick skittishly divulges his. With this podcast, they hope that by opening up more, they can promote more positive conversation around sexual health and relationships. Open your mind (and maybe your legs) to this week’s show!

Ep. 046 – Who cares about Peggy??

June 3, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedcanine, Comedy, Consent, couples, dating, death, dogs, Drag, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, pets, Relationships, wellnessPatrick Holbert

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Well last week they were being voyeurs at the dog park and now their sitting IN the dog park. Ross’ dreams finally came true… she wore Patrick down and got them a dog!!! Welcome Peggy, the adorable mutt to the Holbertineau family. Peggy came into their life as a foster from In Our Hands Rescue and she’s staying in their lives as their doghter. Ross and Patrick talk about how becoming dog owners has already begun to change their lives for the better and the unexpected. Peggy is a precious little girl who makes people smile wherever she goes. What were they supposed to do, not adopt a living breathing stuffed animal?! What are you, insane???

Ep. 044 – Who cares about abortions??

May 20, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedabortion, america, brooklyn, Consent, couples, dating, feminism, gay, government, healthcare, homosexuality, human rights, law, life, Love, Marriage, mental health, new york city, nyc, podcast, politics, queer, separation of church and state, Sex, sex positive, states, united states, us governmentPatrick Holbert

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It’s time to talk about these god damn abortion bans. Predominantly conservative white male legislators across this country are making decisions about female bodies, and the hypocritical snow ball effect knows no bounds. Ross does some research on exactly what these laws mean and where they’re taking place, all while mocking these men and their terrible southern accents. The Who Cares duo hope that by using the small platform they have, they can at least spark conversation and let people know how they can take action. Ross is not interested in being “ofPatrick” and she hopes you feel the same. We’re in this together! Here are some links to a variety of articles and organizations that will keep you informed and tell you how you can make a difference. We love you, keep going!

https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/how-to-help-alabama-6-week-abortion-ban-georgia.html
https://www.vox.com/2019/5/16/18628002/abortion-ohio-alabama-georgia-law-bill-details
https://abortionfunds.org/
http://www.stopabortionbans.org/
https://yellowhammerfund.org/

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Ep. 043 – Who cares about Mother’s Day??

May 13, 2019Comedy, Marriage, Pop Culture, Sex, Travel, Uncategorizedbrooklyn, children, couples, dating, family, Gender, holidays, Love, Marriage, mental health, mother's day, new york city, parents, podcast, recovery, Relationships, standup comedyPatrick Holbert

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Happy Mother’s Day, y’all! This week we take some time to thank all the mamas out there. Mothers can be biological, surrogate, adopted, chosen, or any other way you can think of someone becoming a MOTHER. Ross and Patrick start by celebrating the women who birthed them into existence, Betty Ann and Jane. Listen in as these two moms make guest appearances on this week’s episode as Ross and Patrick make their mother’s day phone calls. Come share in the love! Matriarchy Now!